Remedy for the Rare – MIBG
Well this is awkward… I think it’s been 12.. days, I don’t even know quite honestly, I’m completely disconnected from the world right now. I kind of left all of you hanging, I apologize for my absence....
View ArticleThis is Cancer.
How do you tell the ones you love… something you can’t begin to explain yourself” I moved into my dream home 22 days ago Twenty two days of contemplation and careful thought of how I was going to share...
View ArticleCreate your own Fabulous
Instead of running around for last minute gifts, decorating the tree, attending fabulous parties… The tradition we have manufactured the last three years is driving through snow storms hours away,...
View ArticleA zebra can be a unicorn
Pheo VS Fabulous 🚨 Coming to you live from the comforts of her 15×25 hospital suite 🏥 It’s incredible when the mental fog begins to clear just a touch and you’re able to begin to make the smallest of...
View ArticleZebra or Unicorn 🦄
If you have been in the “rare disease” world with us, you may wonder what the reference is to the zebra. When you hear hoofbeats, we are trained to think horses, not zebras … 🦓 This means that in a...
View ArticleI made it to the water…
If you asked me two months ago where I was going to be today, my answer would be very different than right now. I’m a positive person, but when you can’t walk or talk … there’s a point where positivity...
View ArticleBeating the odds
Five years ago, October 10th, I was told I had 1-5 years to live. I remember sitting there, so full of hate and anger. Thinking to myself, “if they had just listened to me, I wouldn’t be here” It took...
View ArticleCTV news tonight @ 6
If ever there were a time to watch the news, tonight is the night. I will be on CTV news tonight at 6 with Emily Campbell discussing one of my most difficult events that happened to us so far. It’s...
View Article“Couple speaking out after psychologist coaches husband to try and kill...
https://montreal.ctvnews.ca/mobile/couple-alleges-psychologist-tried-to-talk-husband-into-killing-terminally-ill-wife-1.4667916
View ArticleI have news …
Five years ago I was told I had 1-5 years to live. I sat in a white office with the same diabetes posters and bland medical facts I had looked at several times, and contemplated how angry I was. Angry...
View Article10 things I’ve learned about fading relationships
Support comes in all forms when you receive a diagnosis, but as you become sicker and the “old you” starts fading away, so do your relationships. So many people want to be there for you when you first...
View ArticleThe Mighty Article
Yesterday I shared a very personal blog that I felt could relate to a lot of people going through similar times. Not even necessarily sick people, just people who have had fading relationships for...
View ArticleYour Questions…
A few weeks ago I asked you guys to ask me anything, I’m so happy to share with you the answers to your questions! Watch below Like and share! Follow me on Facebook & Instagram: @pheovsfabulous
View ArticleJust because I have a terminal illness…
Doesn’t mean I’m terminally ill, confused? I was too. I still might be, but I think it’s time someone explained what it is to have a terminal rare disease. With rare disease day approaching, I’d like...
View Article35 things I wish you knew about having a rare illness…
35 things we wish you knew about having a rare cancer, chronic disease, or rare illness. Here’s the thing, before I start… I want you to know that I’ve asked hundreds of patients fighting this disease...
View Article“We have Cancer”
My husband and I often say “we have cancer”. A cancer diagnosis affects everyone involved, your spouse, your kids, parents, your friends, anyone who is a pivotal part of your life. Anytime we’re in...
View ArticleI am Rare: 2021
If you had asked me six years ago what I was going to write in 2021 on rare disease day, I’d have told you I wouldn’t be here to share. I’d have told you what they told me, I maybe have a year left....
View ArticleLet me re-introduce myself…
can·cer ˈkansər/ – disease; causing the body and mind to adapt, overcome, and embrace change. Quality of Life: What do these three seemingly simple words mean to you? Someone who is living with a...
View Article“It’s not me…!” It’s my cancer!
“Harmonious self regulation is the body’s natural state, stress pulls you into another state, of heightened biological responses that triggers a flow of hormones, increased heart rate, stimulate the...
View ArticleThe grief process…
Someone recently asked me how I deal with the anger that comes with being dismissed for so long with rare disease. So you just got your diagnosis. It’s hard to know how to feel, right? Thankful that...
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